All people that are online are there probably after a long day of work or probably not, but for sure are there to relax and have a great time.
I am not saying those are not looking for a partner, but as you are going in a bar on online dating sites you are looking for easy, positive discussions and fun as it is possible.
Being positive, relaxed and confident will attract people and will make them to keep talking with you. So forget about your problems and concentrate on things that make you feel good. :)
Some people out there are not very happy and you could meet some of them which will start to tell you all the problems they have.
Distract the one you are talking online from the negative discussion and make him/her to laugh. Telling good jokes is the best way to do this and is easier for you, so learn some if you are not that joker tip of guy.
If you are seeing that they are persisting to be pessimist and keep telling you how unhappy the life can be, just say: "Goodbye" and don’t let them to put you too in a bad mood.
One of the advantages of online dating is that you can change your "partner" more than once during one evening. I am not telling you to do this for no reason, but until you find someone who can make you enjoy that evening and not waste your time.
After you meet a person compatible you can take your discussion to another level, more private but still funny and relaxed. You even can talk about important things, about your families, your goals in life or even about your future children - not being to serious about that :)
The idea is to be positive in all what you are telling and do not rush things. The best relationships are developing in time. Without you realize, talking with someone daily you two will become closer and closer and a date face to face will become something normal.
So enjoy online dating and the facilities it is offering you.
Friday, July 25, 2008
Saturday, July 5, 2008
Lessons In Love
Are you on the look out for a boyfriend/girlfriend? Have you been single for a while? Have you somebody in mind who you would like to go on a date with? A few years ago I thought that I knew what my ideal partner or girlfriend would look and be like. I was however about to learn a very valuable lesson of which I will write about in this article.
I am quite short for a male and always prefer to date women who are smaller than I am. This however counts quite a lot of them out. I also like women who are very down to earth and who are quite relaxed about life, not too into themselves for example. I also prefer them to be brunette with a nice smile and attractive eyes, a slim figure would also be a bonus.
What I have just described is what I believed to be my perfect girlfriend. This whole notion was blown out of the water around ten years when I had to work on a project at work with a woman called Sam. She was about ten years older than I was and I will never forget what my first impressions of her were. What a mess, I thought. She had made no effort with her appearance, had not even brushed her hair it seemed, she dressed as if she was twenty years older than she actually was and basically looked like she had not slept the night before.
This may seem quite cruel and harsh, this is what I used to be like back then, I am ashamed to think about how my mind used to work. I am happy however that I have now changed to be what I hope is a nicer person.
Despite these first impressions I have to say that Sam was so nice and helpful to me over the next three months. She is probably one of the kindest and purest people I have ever met.
After about ten weeks of first meeting Sam, I started to dream about her and I think I fell in love with her. She had not suddenly made an effort with her appearance, still looked a mess etc. The fact was it did not matter to me anymore, it was what was inside that counted.
I never ever admitted to Sam how I felt as she was married, I think her husband is one of the luckiest men alive.
Thanks Sam for teaching me a very important lesson in love.
I am quite short for a male and always prefer to date women who are smaller than I am. This however counts quite a lot of them out. I also like women who are very down to earth and who are quite relaxed about life, not too into themselves for example. I also prefer them to be brunette with a nice smile and attractive eyes, a slim figure would also be a bonus.
What I have just described is what I believed to be my perfect girlfriend. This whole notion was blown out of the water around ten years when I had to work on a project at work with a woman called Sam. She was about ten years older than I was and I will never forget what my first impressions of her were. What a mess, I thought. She had made no effort with her appearance, had not even brushed her hair it seemed, she dressed as if she was twenty years older than she actually was and basically looked like she had not slept the night before.
This may seem quite cruel and harsh, this is what I used to be like back then, I am ashamed to think about how my mind used to work. I am happy however that I have now changed to be what I hope is a nicer person.
Despite these first impressions I have to say that Sam was so nice and helpful to me over the next three months. She is probably one of the kindest and purest people I have ever met.
After about ten weeks of first meeting Sam, I started to dream about her and I think I fell in love with her. She had not suddenly made an effort with her appearance, still looked a mess etc. The fact was it did not matter to me anymore, it was what was inside that counted.
I never ever admitted to Sam how I felt as she was married, I think her husband is one of the luckiest men alive.
Thanks Sam for teaching me a very important lesson in love.
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